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How does the adjective courteous contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of courteous are chivalrous, civil, gallant, and polite. While all these words mean "observant of the forms required by good breeding," courteous implies more actively considerate or dignified politeness.

clerks who were unfailingly courteous to customers

When can chivalrous be used instead of courteous?

While in some cases nearly identical to courteous, chivalrous suggests high-minded and self-sacrificing behavior.

a chivalrous display of duty

Where would civil be a reasonable alternative to courteous?

The words civil and courteous are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, civil often suggests little more than the avoidance of overt rudeness.

owed the questioner a civil reply

How are the words gallant and chivalrous related as synonyms of courteous?

Both gallant and chivalrous imply courteous attentiveness especially to women. Gallant suggests spirited and dashing behavior and ornate expressions of courtesy.

a gallant suitor of the old school

When could polite be used to replace courteous?

The meanings of polite and courteous largely overlap; however, polite commonly implies polish of speech and manners and sometimes suggests an absence of cordiality.

if you can't be pleasant, at least be polite

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of courteous Rather, more parents should welcome, rather than react defensively, when another parent steps in to support your efforts to teach your kids courteous manners. Elisabeth Sherman, Parents, 5 Mar. 2025 Described as courteous, hard-working, and helpful who doesn't take the spotlight and does the right things. Andy Humbles, The Tennessean, 22 Dec. 2024 Pleasant and courteous, Sri says and does all the right things. Bilge Ebiri, Vulture, 13 Sep. 2024 Cadets like Ayanna Amaro, a Waukegan High School junior, got the message about being courteous before Villalobos made his comments about bodycams, including how to conduct a sobriety test during a DUI stop. Steve Sadin, Chicago Tribune, 6 Jan. 2025 See All Example Sentences for courteous
Recent Examples of Synonyms for courteous
Adjective
  • Instead, Storm reached the bottom rope to a polite pop from Glendale.
    Alfred Konuwa, Forbes.com, 26 May 2025
  • Sometimes the threat of a fine can produce better results than a polite request.
    Gary Singer, Sun Sentinel, 22 May 2025
Adjective
  • Its three-stateroom design lets owners and guests can enjoy weekend cruising, while the exterior promotes gracious outdoor living in the large beach-club area, or up on the sport bridge.
    Julia Zaltzman, Robb Report, 28 May 2025
  • Ohio State fans were actually gracious in honoring him before the game.
    David Ubben, New York Times, 22 May 2025

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“Courteous.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/courteous. Accessed 1 Jun. 2025.

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