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How does the adjective courteous contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of courteous are chivalrous, civil, gallant, and polite. While all these words mean "observant of the forms required by good breeding," courteous implies more actively considerate or dignified politeness.

clerks who were unfailingly courteous to customers

When can chivalrous be used instead of courteous?

While in some cases nearly identical to courteous, chivalrous suggests high-minded and self-sacrificing behavior.

a chivalrous display of duty

Where would civil be a reasonable alternative to courteous?

The words civil and courteous are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, civil often suggests little more than the avoidance of overt rudeness.

owed the questioner a civil reply

How are the words gallant and chivalrous related as synonyms of courteous?

Both gallant and chivalrous imply courteous attentiveness especially to women. Gallant suggests spirited and dashing behavior and ornate expressions of courtesy.

a gallant suitor of the old school

When could polite be used to replace courteous?

The meanings of polite and courteous largely overlap; however, polite commonly implies polish of speech and manners and sometimes suggests an absence of cordiality.

if you can't be pleasant, at least be polite

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of courteous Although it’s technically owned by the chain bookseller Waterstones, a courteous old-world atmosphere reigns. Daphne Merkin, Air Mail, 13 Sep. 2025 Remember, drivers spend hours each day talking with passengers, and sometimes silence is the most courteous option. Elizabeth Fogarty, Better Homes & Gardens, 21 Aug. 2025 The judge was curt but courteous; a Spanish-language interpreter was available on a large video screen to his right. Jordan Salama, New Yorker, 25 July 2025 Rather than subtly asking whether an applicant is humble, courteous, and a good listener, this question’s first purpose is gleaning what a student truly cares about. Christopher Rim, Forbes.com, 17 July 2025 See All Example Sentences for courteous
Recent Examples of Synonyms for courteous
Adjective
  • The place being a Midwestern park, the ghost is by all accounts pretty damn polite.
    Graham Averill, Outside, 28 Oct. 2025
  • Hank’s voice is gentle and polite, but that doesn’t put Aaron at ease.
    Jourdain Searles, HollywoodReporter, 28 Oct. 2025
Adjective
  • This luxurious property sizzles with gracious elegance and impeccable service, eliciting over-the-top reviews from guests.
    Kathryn Streeter, USA Today, 24 Oct. 2025
  • The fans are really, really gracious and excited.
    Dave Quinn, PEOPLE, 22 Oct. 2025

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“Courteous.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/courteous. Accessed 29 Oct. 2025.

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