courteous

adjective

cour·​te·​ous ˈkər-tē-əs How to pronounce courteous (audio)
 British also  ˈkȯ-
1
: marked by polished manners, gallantry, or ceremonial usage of a court
2
: marked by respect for and consideration of others
courteously adverb
courteousness noun
Choose the Right Synonym for courteous

civil, polite, courteous, gallant, chivalrous mean observant of the forms required by good breeding.

civil often suggests little more than the avoidance of overt rudeness.

owed the questioner a civil reply

polite commonly implies polish of speech and manners and sometimes suggests an absence of cordiality.

if you can't be pleasant, at least be polite

courteous implies more actively considerate or dignified politeness.

clerks who were unfailingly courteous to customers

gallant and chivalrous imply courteous attentiveness especially to women.

gallant suggests spirited and dashing behavior and ornate expressions of courtesy.

a gallant suitor of the old school

chivalrous suggests high-minded and self-sacrificing behavior.

a chivalrous display of duty

Examples of courteous in a Sentence

There was no doubt that his stubbornly held and trenchantly expressed views—his trenchancy always tempered, however, by his gently courteous manner—contributed significantly to his unpopularity … Simon Winchester, The Man Who Loved China, 2008
… she has seen generations of boys come and go, some well groomed and courteous, others rough and uppity … Julian Barnes, New Yorker, 5 Mar. 1990
He joined us in the Yellow Room with … his son, a thoughtful, courteous, nice doctor … Lady Bird Johnson 27 May 1964, in A White House Diary1970
The clerks were helpful and courteous. their customer service department always gives courteous responses, even to rude people
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To help care for Park City, practice good trail etiquette by leaving no trace on the trails (staying on marked trails and packing up your garbage), being courteous of other hikers and mountain bikers, and never taking items like rocks or plants from the trail. AFAR Media, 7 July 2025 Though these Hongdae men try to push buttons, Sean Solo’s videos always emphasize how normal Korean men act as well, which is pretty courteous and nice in comparison. Lea Veloso, StyleCaster, 5 June 2025 Giving notice of a full calendar month is both courteous and a way to protect your security deposit. Jill Terreri Ramos, New York Times, 17 May 2025 As mentioned, this is a very popular trail, especially on the weekends, so try to be courteous and share the trail with other hikers. Maura Fox, San Diego Union-Tribune, 28 June 2025 See All Example Sentences for courteous

Word History

Etymology

Middle English corteis, from Anglo-French curteis, from curt

First Known Use

13th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

Time Traveler
The first known use of courteous was in the 13th century

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“Courteous.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/courteous. Accessed 18 Jul. 2025.

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courteous

adjective
cour·​te·​ous ˈkərt-ē-əs How to pronounce courteous (audio)
1
: marked by good manners suitable to a court
2
: marked by respect for and consideration of others
courteously adverb
courteousness noun

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