coy

1 of 2

adjective

1
a
: marked by cute, coquettish, or artful playfulness
using coy tricks to attract attention
b
: shrinking from contact or familiarity
"'Tis but a kiss I beg, Why art thou coy?"William Shakespeare
2
: showing reluctance to make a definite commitment
a coy response
coyly adverb
coyness noun

coy

2 of 2

verb

coyed; coying; coys

transitive verb

obsolete : caress

intransitive verb

archaic : to act coyly (see coy entry 1)
Choose the Right Synonym for coy

shy, bashful, diffident, modest, coy mean not inclined to be forward.

shy implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others.

shy with strangers

bashful implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence.

a bashful boy out on his first date

diffident stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking.

felt diffident about raising an objection

modest suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit.

modest about her success

coy implies a pretended shyness.

put off by her coy manner

Examples of coy in a Sentence

Adjective It is distinctly odd to read a whole page dedicated to Hitler's life and character without a reference to his anti-Semitism. To say that Swiss banks contained gold coming from the bank accounts, the jewelry boxes, and the teeth of "concentration camp victims" is a little coy. Ian Buruma, New Republic, 31 Jan. 2000
Rival camps are terrified that Bush will reject federal matching funds and the campaign-spending limits they impose, and Bush's aides are coy on the subject. John F. Dickerson, Time, 8 Mar. 1999
And there's Julia, the charming "chatterbot" (a text-based computer character), whose coy pickup banter echoes that of real-life Internet flirts. Michiko Kakutani, Albany (New York) Times-Union, 20 Aug. 1997
I didn't like her coy manner. He gave a coy answer.
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Adjective
Mbatha-Raw and Jackson-Cohen were both coy when asked about Sophie and James’ future. Hilary Lewis, HollywoodReporter, 20 Apr. 2025 Paris is the coy Daris (Arya Grace Gaston), and the doomed hero Achilles has become the grim-faced Trojan running back Keeley (Erin Treadway, in boxer braids and golden work boots), who refuses to take the field after Johnny utters a fatal insult. Helen Shaw, New Yorker, 28 Mar. 2025 Those influences are often deliberate — coy and canny reworkings of previous themes and character types, presented again in new guises and winking reflections. Kathryn Vanarendonk, Vulture, 11 Feb. 2025 The members have been coy about the band’s future—sometimes dousing it with cold water, others alluding to informal meet-ups that may or may not lead to a return to the studio or stage. Jazz Monroe, Pitchfork, 13 Mar. 2025 See All Example Sentences for coy

Word History

Etymology

Adjective and Verb

Middle English, quiet, shy, from Anglo-French quoi, quei, koi quiet, from Latin quietus

First Known Use

Adjective

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1b

Verb

14th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense

Time Traveler
The first known use of coy was in the 14th century

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“Coy.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/coy. Accessed 25 Apr. 2025.

Kids Definition

coy

adjective
ˈkȯi
1
2
: marked by cute or sly playfulness or pretended shyness
using coy tricks to attract attention
coyly adverb
coyness noun

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