passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

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Celia Weston, as Margot’s passive-aggressive Southern Belle mother, makes hay with the more serious moments near the end. Michael Phillips, Chicago Tribune, 30 Jan. 2025 Yes, Albrecht Escher absconded with Lasher and left Sip holding the bag, with nothing but a passive-aggressive voice note on a bottle of brown liquor by way of good-bye. Kathleen Walsh, Vulture, 26 Jan. 2025 LeBron James emphasized earlier this week, in his trademark passive-aggressive manner, that the roster as presently constituted has no margin for error. Jim Alexander, Orange County Register, 24 Jan. 2025 So eventually, unspoken frustrations (socks on the floor, too many nights out, a pattern of flakiness) build into resentment, which can leak out in the form of unproductive, passive-aggressive comments or more explosive, potentially hurtful blowups. Jenna Ryu, SELF, 24 Jan. 2025 See all Example Sentences for passive-aggressive 

Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 2 Feb. 2025.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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